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*Disclaimer: Refugee Experiences May Vary Depending on Country of Origin, Skin Color, or Religion*


 By: Melissa Frasco


Since the last article I wrote on Ukraine there have been more developments concerning the refugee situation. To the point where now Ukrainians and Russians are arriving to the U.S. - Mexico Border in increasing numbers, all fleeing Putin’s war on Ukraine. For the general public it is more than clear why Ukrainians are fleeing, but for Russians it is more complicated. For Russians at the border one women described how she fled with her family after she spent a week in jail for protesting the war on Ukraine. Europeans at the U.S. – Mexico Border is not a new phenomenon but, the numbers are surging now more than ever. What I would like to take a closer look at is the treatment of recent European arrivals versus prior arrivals from Latin American and other countries.

First, I must explain that this is a horrific situation at the border where all refugees are subject to numerous forms of dehumanization, lack of basic needs (shelter, food, water), and human rights violations. Second, all of those at the border are refugees, there should no hierarchy comparing one refugee experience to another. My third point is that the U.S. immigration system is inherently unequal and therefore treats refugees unequally. Lastly, I will be referring to all of those at the border as refugees, as often refugees are allotted certain assistance and status as opposed to migrants. For those referred to as migrants or, economic migrants as the United States often uses, little is done to protect them. For example, how many times have you heard a reporter on television refer to group as “Central American Refugees” or “Latin American Refugees”?  These words simply do not roll off the tongue, because in mainstream media (aside from the occasional discussion of political refugees) does not present Latin Americans as refugees. (To learn more about the refugee and migrant binary I highly recommend Rebecca Hamlin’s book Crossing: How We Label and React to People on the Move.)

If we are going to discuss the presence of European refugees at the U.S. – Mexico border we must discuss the positionality between newly arrived Ukrainians, Russians, and the typically pre-existing Latin American migrants. There is not much data available at the moment on how many Ukrainians have been accepted, however it is obvious that Ukrainian refugees are entering the United States through the same border that has refused the majority of Latin Americans. One report stated that Ukrainians were waiting one day and then are being connected with volunteers until they cross into the United States. Many Ukrainian and Russian speaking U.S. citizens have gone to the border as volunteers to help communicate with the new refugees. As for Russians fleeing Putin’s reign, they have been told to find migrant shelters until their case can be considered for asylum. As for many Latin Americans who have been left for months waiting for their asylum cases to be heard there seems to be no urgency at all to process their papers. With this ongoing refugee crisis at the border there are going to be more opportunities for the U.S. to show how they welcome some refugees and exclude others. There should be no hierarchy of refugee experiences, but with the likelihood of the refugee experiences being played out unequally we must keep a critical eye on how refugees are treated when coming to the United States.

 Duenes, J., Solomon, D. B., & Cooke, K. (2022, April 2). Camp of Ukrainians at the U.S.-Mexico border swells, as more refugees arrive. Reuters. https://www.reuters.com/world/camp-ukrainians-us-mexico-border-swells-more-refugees-arrive-2022-04-01/

 Hamlin, R. (2021). Crossing: How we label and react to people on the move. Stanford University Press.

Solomon, D. B. (2022, March 19). Stuck at Mexico border, anti-war Russians sweat their futures as Ukrainians enter U.S. Reuters. https://www.reuters.com/world/stuck-mexico-border-anti-war-russians-sweat-their-futures-ukrainians-enter-us-2022-03-19/

 US allows Ukrainians fleeing war into the country through Mexico. (n.d.). Retrieved April 12, 2022, from https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2022/3/17/us-allows-ukrainians-fleeing-war-into-country-through-mexico

A Look at the Intersections of Domestic Violence and Undocumented Status 


 By: Melissa Frasco 

 

It is not hard to agree that domestic violence is a horrendous crime. Just like it is not hard to wear purple for domestic violence awareness month (October) or share the number of a domestic violence hotline on social media. The reality of domestic violence is that it is much more nuanced. In the traditional depictions of domestic violence we imagine men committing violent acts against women. This is usually where the public’s imagination stops. However, people of all genders, all sexual orientations, ethnicities, and racial groups experience domestic violence. While my previous point is important to keep in mind, I would like to focus particularly on the undocumented women I have worked with in the past, and who are survivors of domestic violence.  

 Many of the women I worked with had experienced years domestic violence at the hands of an intimate partner. Some had even started experiencing the domestic violence in their country of origin, which then followed them to the United States. Working as a case manager I met these women some years out of their abusive relationships. Some moved in with family to get away from the abuse, others moved states, some were able to financially free themselves and no longer be dependent on their abusers. Like many other domestic violence survivors there is no right time to leave, in fact many women have an increased risk of homicide when they choose to physically leave a violent relationship. This is also why the idea of telling someone to “just leave an abusive relationship” can be a damaging. 

Instead factors such as financial control/abuse, physical violence, emotional abuse, spiritual abuse, sexual abuse, and immigration status all play a role. For the women I worked with they had been threatened with having immigration called on them by their abusive partners. The threat of calling immigration or ICE (Immigration and Customs Enforcement) typically is intertwined with the fear of deportation. With ever tightening restrictions that criminalize the everyday activities of undocumented folks coupled with brutality of domestic violence women in these situations can feel beyond helpless. These threats become so powerful to the point where these undocumented women are being threatened by their (sometimes) undocumented partners to have ICE called on them. I have seen examples of this in cases where women try to leave the abusive relationship or if they try to report the abuse they are experiencing. Women and especially immigrants become particularly vulnerable when they do not speak English and therefore have trouble understanding their own rights despite their immigration status. 

 Even though a relationship between two people who are undocumented may seem somewhat equal, power imbalances can still occur. Power imbalances typically occur when abuse, control, or power is unfairly exerted over someone for their gender, immigration status, financial situation, and their education (or lack thereof). These are just some of the common categories that women in domestic violence situations find themselves being exploited by.  

Now that we have discussed the situations where some are unable to speak up due to fear, I would like to explore what happens when some women are able to report domestic violence. For the most part I worked with women who were undocumented and usually Spanish speaking only. For the most part domestic violence service providers have greatly increased their ability to cater to the experiences of undocumented and non-English speaking survivors. In the case of reporting domestic violence to the police the process becomes more complex. Despite some misinformation that exists, by law in New York City anyone has the right to call 911 in the case of emergency or if they feel that their life is in danger. Although, it is not easy to explain to someone who is undocumented that they can call 911 whenever they need to. This is true even though their immigration status is typically vilified by many public policies. For example, I worked with a woman who did at one point make a police report of the physical abuse she was experiencing. Despite being able to make the report, she was never informed properly on how to move forward with the case. Therefore, her charges never went forward, and years later when she was trying to file for a divorce she was looked down upon for not pursuing the charges years earlier when she tried to get a copy of her police report. Though following through with charges may seem like common sense to some, for someone who is not in the country they grew up in and does not speak the language following up with charges appears out of reach.  

At the end of the day the woman who was unable follow through with charges after her police report does not signify that her abuse did not happen. Instead, it signified a lack of transparency and collaboration that our justice system is not capable of aiding survivors and immigrants.  

Below I will list resources for domestic violence survivors and advocates: 

Domestic violence and abuse can include: 

  • Hitting, slapping, kicking or using any other kind of physical violence against you 

  • Forcing you to have sex when you don't want to, or to do sexual things you don't want to do 

  • Threatening to hurt you, your children, or someone else you care about or your pet 

  • Constantly insulting and criticizing you 

  • Stalking, obsessively checking up on or otherwise trying to control your behavior 

If you or someone you know is experiencing this kind of behavior from a partner, please call New York City's 24 hour Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-800- 621-4673 

 

  • NYC’s 24-hour Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-212-227-3000; TTY 1-866-604-5350 

 

  • NYC Gay and Lesbian Anti-Violence Project: 212-714-1141 

 

En Español  

Nuestras tres líneas directas están disponibles las 24 horas, los 7 días de la semana, durante todo el año. El personal te puede brindar ayuda en español y en cualquier otro idioma. Contamos con consejeros listos para ayudarte en este momento. 

  • Para violencia doméstica, llama al: 800-621–(4673). 

  • Para víctimas de cualquier delito, que incluye apoyo a familiares de víctimas de homicidio, llama al: 866-689-HELP (4357) 

  • Para sobrevivientes de violación y agresión sexual, llama al: 212-227-3000. 

  • Llama al 311 para pedir información de la Ciudad de Nueva York y servicios que no sean urgentes. 

  • En situaciones de emergencia, llama al 911. 

More information and Service providers 

 

Find your Domestic Violence Service Provider based on your county (NY State)